Tips for Supporting Your Student
As your student leaves home and enters college, it’s essential to find the balance between providing a helping hand and allowing your student to strengthen their newfound independence. By maintaining a strong support system and empowering them to make the right choices; you can be an asset to your student in this exciting new chapter of their life. Here are some ideas to help you in this journey.
Encourage Independence
College is a critical time for young adults to develop independence. Encourage your student to take responsibility for their actions, decisions, and their studies. This includes letting them manage their schedules, solve their own problems, and make their own decisions, even if they make mistakes along the way. Understand that mistakes are part of learning.
Stay Connected
Regular communication is key. This doesn’t mean you need to speak every day, but establishing a routine check-in schedule can provide your student with a sense of security and support. Respect their independence and growth into adulthood by listening more than advising, and by being there when they reach out.
Financial Support and Budgeting
Help your student understand the importance of budgeting and managing their finances. This could include setting up a bank account, teaching them how to balance their account, or discussing how to use credit cards wisely. Support might also mean contributing financially, but it’s also about teaching them financial independence and responsibility.
Encourage your student to get help early if they are struggling. Waiting until the last few weeks of the semester may be too late. Encourage your student to take advantage of the resources Ensign College offers, including tutoring, academic advisors, success coaches, and counselors at the
student success center
on the ninth floor. Be open to their academic interests and career goals, even if they change over time.
College can be stressful. Be open to discussions about mental health and encourage your student to use campus resources, including
counseling services
. Watch for signs of stress, anxiety, or depression, and don't be afraid to suggest professional help. If you have significant concerns about your child, feel free to send an email to parents@ensign.edu or
contact the Dean of Students
.
Promote healthy habits
Physical health should always be a priority, and instilling positive habits in your student should help them stay on top of their routine in a new environment. From getting plenty of sleep and healthy eating habits to drinking water throughout the day and wearing sunscreen, promoting health-conscious behavior can safeguard their well-being from a distance.
Send Care Packages
A care package at any time can be a great way to show your student you’re thinking of them. Include their favorite snacks, a few personal items, and perhaps a motivational note or two.
Encourage Extracurricular Activity
College isn’t just about academics; it’s also about personal growth and networking. Encourage your student to get involved in
clubs on campus
, or to attend volunteer and service opportunities that interest them. There are many
events and activities
at Ensign College designed to help students gain experience and meet new people.
Be Their Cheerleader
Celebrate their successes, big and small. Knowing you believe in them can be a huge motivational boost. And, don't forget to pray for them!